Friday, 1 October 2021

Happy 7 Years, Seventeen James! A Life Recap & Plans for the Future

Outfit: Shirt - Custom (similar here) / Skirt - H&M (old, similar here) / Shoes - Tony Bianco

Today marks the 7 year anniversary of this blog. It was seven years ago that this blog came to life, when I was encouraged at university to start one as a place to constantly write and share my passions. Since then, I've been running this blog (not as consistently as I would like) and have loved opening up about fashion, beauty and lifestyle. If anything, this space has brought me closer to fashion, not in just what I wear, but to the world of fashion. I love discussing fashion weeks, designers, trends and so on. For me this space is such an incredible creative output for that. 

I'll be honest with you, I thought I would be in a different place with this blog by now, but as they say "life gets in the way". A lot has happened in the last 7 years; most importantly finishing my Undergrad in Journalism in 2017, and now just a week ago, I finished my Masters in Media & Communications. I haven't graduated yet, but all my coursework and dissertation are complete. I'm genuinely quite proud of myself, especially completing a degree during this pandemic. 

 

Moreover, I've been back and forth between London and Colombo, and then just as I was about to return to London, COVID hit. So yeah, definitely things happened. We all spent countless days in lockdown over the last 18 months, or even more now, so life hasn't been smooth sailing. 

That being said, creating content has definitely been such a wonderful output for me to not only enjoy my passions but to unwind... which is ironic since it's work in a way. I've been utterly grateful to have this blog for 7 years and only hope to have it for another 7 or more. I know I haven't had the trajectory that other bloggers or content creators have had, but I'm happy to continuously learn and grow, finding who I am and the kind of content I want to make as I go along. 

I definitely think in recent months I have figured out where I want this to go and hopefully I can take it there. So I hope you continue on this journey with me as I learn and create more.I have such incredible plans and hope to make loads of different updates and in the near future, but in that time I'll continue to write and create. So follow along here, on my Instagram and my YouTube!

Thank you for sticking with me over these 7 years. I'm grateful for all of you who continue to support, read my words or admire my content. I wouldn't be here without you. 

Here's to the future of Seventeen James. 

Lots of love, 

Emily

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Monday, 7 June 2021

A Lockdown Life Update: How I’ve Been Feeling Lately

Outfit: Dress - Custom (similar here and here)/ Necklace - Topshop (old, similar here)

We are in the thick of lockdown (or “travel restrictions” as its been labelled) here in Sri Lanka and honestly, I’m kind of done with it which is completely unlike me. Last year lockdown, I was absolutely fine and happy but this one? I have no idea why but there’s something about this time around where I’m like “no thanks, I’m good without this.” It’s completely natural, I know that everyone’s probably felt this way at one point of another. 

What has made it a little bit more rubbish this time around is that my energy levels have completely plummeted into the abyss. The last few months I was on a rocket to the moon; working out pretty much everyday, and I mean HIIT workouts, getting work done, being a busy bee. But now, I’m like... blah. And it absolutely sucks. 

Anyone deal with this? You’re on a roll and you don’t think anything could stop you and then you just completely face plant to the floor? Raise your hand if you have or are feeling this way because I need to not feel guilty, haha.

I definitely went to bed last night saying “I need change” and in circumstances where you can’t change everything, you have to change something. So I switched up my routine a little bit. Now it’s only the afternoon here so I can’t tell you if this routine works, but one thing I will say is; change up the schedule, do not stick to the same mundane routine you’ve been in. Seems easier said than done when you’re in lockdown right? Well there’s just different things you can add and remove from your routine that might make it feel a little bit better.

Also, don’t forget that Mercury is in retrograde and if all else fails, blame your lack of energy, motivation and focus on that because we can all use a scapegoat at times.

So far here, lockdown is said to continue until June 21st, but even that is uncertain. Who knows what’ll happen in the coming days or weeks? All I’ll say is, if you’re feeling a bit blah, I’m definitely with you; you’re not alone. And remember it’s okay to feel like that, whether it’s a short or long period of time, just ride the wave of it. Sometimes you just have to. Look after yourself first before you push yourself too far.

I’m going to be following up this post with another this week on the things I’m doing to keep my energy refreshed. So stay tuned! 

Until then, I hope you’re all staying safe and well. Sending you lots of love,

Emily xx

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Friday, 8 January 2021

Hello 2021: The Happiness List & A Little Life Update

 

Dress - Custom

Happy New Year everyone!

It's officially been one week since 2021 began and let's just say, it hasn't been all smooth sailing. Not that we want to recap on it, but if you didn't see what happened in the US or hear about the UK's new predicament, well then you have definitely been MIA. 

But this is a place for escape, to an extent and therefore let's start the year on SJ with a bit of happiness. 

I used to make resolutions every year and then felt pressured to go through with them. I then switched from resolutions to goals, which I wrote about on this blog. But with the upside down that was 2020 and the uncertainty of 2021, because let's face it - we're not in the clear yet, I've decided to make a change again. 

This year, I've decided to make what I like to called "The Happiness List"

With life being different and things being harder, on a various scales for everyone, I thought the best idea this year was to focus on cultivating the good and positive energy within. My happiness list is just the little things I know that will make me happy and feel good. For example; singing and dancing more, reading, writing, learning more photography skills and so on. I've also got practical happiness points, such as finishing my Masters with good grades and even diving in again with my education, and working on my career, especially this blog. I've even got points for my mental health, fitness and self love.

What "The Happiness List" does for me, as opposed to goals and resolutions at a time like we are in, is make sure that I'm keeping my spirits high and hopeful. Life is not easy, especially during a time none of us have ever experience in our lifetimes. So making a list of happiness might help you get through it just that little bit more. 

A few little life updates...

I started vlogging - If you didn't follow along on Instagram, then you may not know that I participated in Vlogmas over Christmas. Yes, I've become a vlogger. It's happened and I actually really enjoyed doing it, so I'm going to make it a regular thing! Starting next Wednesday (13th), I will be uploading weekly vlogs on my YouTube channel. So subscribe to keep yourself in the loop. 

 

Jewellery Obsession: Chain Reaction - You may have noticed on my Instagram that the last few jewellery posts have had a common theme; chains. I absolutely love chainlink anything, always have, whether it be in jewellery or on clothes & accessories. So I've decided to buy into that love with some new pieces. The earrings I found by chance on an Instagram ad. (I have a love-hate relationship with IG ads...) They are from a Sri Lankan small brand called Atypical, which has beautiful jewellery. I immediately fell in love with this particular pair; they felt very Bottega. If you live in Sri Lanka, I would definitely recommend checking them out! My necklace was a beautiful gift from the family for Christmas and I'm utterly obsessed.

Honourable Mention: BridgertonI just finished it actually but all I'll say is call me the Duchess of Hastings because I am married to Regé-Jean Page in my head already. I thought it was absolutely beautiful and you can bet I'm waiting for the season 2 announcement. 

So there's a little update on my life, nothing major but just things that deserved a little mention. I hope to have a lot more in store for 2021 (including getting back to using my camera, just waiting for my battery to arrive). I would love to know what you want to see on the blog, so let me know in the comments below. 

I'm wishing you all a wonderful year ahead and keep your happiness alive!

Lots of Love, 

Emily xx


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Monday, 16 November 2020

Why I'm Dressing Up For The Rest Of The Year


 Outfit: Dress - Pretty Little Thing (*affiliate link used, this does not cost you any extra)

I feel like I've both said and thought this following sentence more times than I can count lately; "2020 has not been the year". It's very easy to get down on ourselves this year because of everything that's going on, not that I need to remind you. And as we come to the end of the year, looking forward to the next, trying to forget this one, I want to urge you to do something.

Look back on 2020 and reflect on the good things because I can guarantee you there were some good ones, even little ones. Maybe you learnt something new, maybe you worked on yourself or maybe you had some major milestones in your education or career. Find those things and express gratitude for them.

It's probably a great time to do it as well with a lot of us going into second lockdowns or being more precautious as the Holiday season is almost upon us (*I am screaming inside with joy*).

Christmas never fails to make me happy. If you haven't learnt that about me by now, well now you know. I get into the festive mood from September, much to the dismay of my family and friends. Christmas, as well as Thanksgiving for my American lovelies, usually brings parties, gatherings, dinners and so much more where we have more than enough excuses to get dressed up. Those things may be put on hold or cancelled altogether and that seems like another downer to add to the list. But I want to encourage you to not allow this to get you down. 

How? 

Dress up. 

So what if you're at home? So what if it feels a little extra? Why wouldn't you want an excuse to get dressed up? Ditch your loungewear and pjs for that outfit you've been itching to wear, or buy the one that's been sitting in your basket that you've been umming and ahhing over. Give yourself a pick me up by dressing up.

Whether you're locked down or social distancing with family, your significant others or your friends, make a spectacle of it. Keep the festivities alive. Christmas Parties cancelled? Zoom it. Get yourself dressed up, get on a Zoom call, play all the Christmas tunes, drink some wine, eat some food, play some games virtually. 

I don't think the festive season has to be lowkey this year, it just has to adapt. 

Dressing up, putting on a full beat of make-up never fails to get me into a good mood and I know there's some of you out there who feel the same. I mean look, I've been living in leggings and t-shirts pretty much the whole year, more so now that I'm sat in front a computer most of my day watching and attending lectures for uni. But I've decided that I'm going to make a bit more of an effort even on a regular day. Maybe not in a bodycon dress like you see me in here, but at least a floaty day dress or a pair of shorts and tee that I would maybe wear for a lunch date. 

I know that I've been feeling a little down in the dumps at times, even not having ideas for the blog because I haven't bought anything new or haven't really worn anything interesting that would then interest you. But I've decided that it doesn't matter - I'm going to post when I post and hopefully you'll enjoy it. And with my new decision of dressing up more, you might just see more of me. 

Times are tough and it's okay to feel down, it's inevitable. It's how you lift yourself up again that matters. So dress up on those days were you're feeling rubbish or organise something to get yourself dressed up for at home. Allow yourself to feel your best.

I hope you're all staying safe and well! Sending you lots of love, 

Emily xx

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Friday, 23 October 2020

A WFH Outfit & A Little Life Update


Outfit: Top (old) - similar here / Trousers - Mango (similar here & here) / Earrings - Cataleyha LK

It’s been a little while since I last posted on here and it’s been eating me up in the back of my mind. But I have good reason for not posting on the blog; every since I started my Master’s degree, I’ve been swamped.

I’m already at the end of Week Four, about to start Week 5… I’m almost half way through a term. The time has flown. In between watching pre-recorded lectures, attending Zoom Q&As and Webinars, my time has been filled with endless reading. I mean pages upon pages and because I’m trying to be a good student, I’ve been reading every single bit of it (and then re-reading points that are too dense). But I’ve been enjoying every minute of it, more so than I thought. So I cannot complain. Nor can I put myself down for being the worst “blogger” in the world. 


I’ve also been trying to brainstorm what to write about or share on here. I would love to know your thoughts because I’m currently having a creative block, which is the worst thing for me. I cannot handle when I can’t come up with creative ideas. Let me know what you’d like to see in the comments below!


On to the part you might be more interested to know; my outfit. I got these trousers from Mango about a month or so ago and I have been dying to wear them since. But since I haven’t really left the house lately, I thought it’s about time I put them on for a WFH/UFH (uni from home) look. I’ve paired them with this old oversized tee, which is super comfy and a super cute pair of earrings from a Sri Lankan brand I found on Instagram. I’ve actually bought a few jewellery pieces via Instagram from Sri Lankan based brands. I might just share those with you soon (I’ve got my eye on a few more pieces, so I’ll grab those first and then make a comprehensive post!). 


Ooh, would you like to see “What I Wore This Week” types of posts? Or are they a bit of a bore? Also, if I’m only wearing leggings half the time that might be boring. Just let me know your thoughts. The more help I can get, the better. 


Until next time, which should hopefully be next week. 


Sending you lots of love and hoping you’re staying safe!


Emily xx

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Friday, 11 September 2020

I Did The Keto Diet For A Month And Here's How It Went


Outfit: Top - Mango (size up for slouchy fit!) / Shorts - Custom

I'm not a diet person in the slightest. I usually get bored with it easily or just have too much of a sugar craving that I bail. I don't try diets out a lot, so when I decided to embark on the keto journey, I went into it thinking "I'll be done with it within a week". And now here we are, a month later and I have never ever been stricter with myself. It's a miracle. 

I decided to do the keto diet at the beginning of August with my mum for a few reasons. 

a.) I wanted to kickstart some extra weight loss.

b.) I wanted to test myself and cut carbs and sugar for a while. 

c.) I thought, "hey, this may just help with my bloating". 

So Mum and I decided to do it together, and honestly I'm glad that I had a partner in this because there were days I needed the motivation. But surprisingly there were not as many down days as I thought there would be. I thought I would be craving carbs and sugar, but I could survive without them. Or I had alternatives. 

The Keto Diet kickstarts the body into ketosis, which is a metabolic process where the body uses fat as fuel for energy as opposed to carbs. This happens because you ultimately reduce your carb intake so then your body has to search for other fuel for you to go throughout the day. 

So you cut carbs completely and I'm talking the complex carbs like pasta, rice, potatoes, carrots etc. Yep, even some vegetables because fun fact, they also hold carb levels that can be high. Another shocker? You can't have fruit. Next to no fruit, which sucked because I thought it would be my saving grace during sugar craving moments. But thank the heavens, you can have berries because they are low in "net carbs", which I'll explain in a moment. So strawberries, raspberries, blueberries and blackberries are a yes on the diet. 

Green veggies are your friends on this one, plus tomatoes and avocados. You can eat avocados like you life depends on it. The other shocker - cheese. I'll say it again, thank the heavens for cheese because it just made this diet all the more enjoyable. Also, butter and cream - a yes. Shocking again, I know. Of course you can also eat meat and seafood, it's recommended that you do alongside nuts, eggs and coconut. Check out the full recommended list here so I don't drone on. 

And so, back at the beginning of August I started this diet and let me tell you it wasn't as bad or hard as I thought it would be, so much so that I kind of don't want it to end. 

Now for any of my friends who are reading this, know I have been on the diet and beg me to stop because they want me to eat junk with them (especially you, Mehr), don't worry I am... kind of. Of course it's important to have balance and I plan on eating a big bowl of pasta one of these days, but I've really seen and felt the effects on my body, which I want to continue. 

I can't tell you in numbers whether I've lost weight because go figure, I don't have a scale. BUT, I feel it and see it in the mirror. Honestly, scales sometimes drive me a little insane because the number will be more than I think and I'll just go into a downward spiral. Yet if I see change in the mirror, major visible change, then I know whatever I'm doing it working and that's happened over this month on keto. 

That's not to say I didn't have my down days. 

Around the middle of the second week, I had a slight case of what they call "the keto flu"; not actually a flu but you may feel a little bit nauseous, slightly ill in the "cold" department, very low on energy and so on. On the day I did feel like that, I kind of had to break the protocol of the diet and have a touch of sugar. And after that day, I was completely fine again. Of course your body is going through a lot within that first week or so as it kickstarts into this new metabolic process, so if you do decide to take on the keto diet, don't be afraid when you feel a bit crap. Just modify for the day and make sure you look after yourself first. It's just a diet, it's not your life. 

  
Just a few shameless meal pics to remember I did this diet. 1. Seed Cafe Hummus & Pumpkin Bowl (minus the carbs) / 2. Plus Nine Four Minced Lamb & Salad (I did not eat the tortilla at the bottom) / 3. Cheers Pub Chicken, Broccoli & Avocado Salad

Look I'm no nutritionist or heath expert, I'm just a girl who wanted to try a diet out to see if it would help her and it did! But I do want to warn you to check with your regular health expert before you do this diet. It's important to put your health first and make your body is okay to go into a new process.

But I will say that I enjoyed the diet to the point where I don't want to end it completely. Of course, I know that the diet needs to be broken and I'm doing that now. However, I plan on keeping up a regular routine of keto, whereby I reduce my complex carb intake to 2 days, 3 days max a week because that works for my digestion without completely bloating me up. I'm also going to keep the sugar intake low too, but if I do I'm going to choose fruits over chocolate. Good God, did I just say that? Did I just write that out on the internet? Ooh, this diet has changed me. 

I don't think I'd ever say I enjoyed a diet, but this one came pretty close to enjoyment and it made me a lot stricter. I learnt how to go out and eat comfortably and happily, which sometimes can be hard on diets! This was one was a lot easier to work around so that's a plus. Also, having a partner to do this with kept up the morale, so thank you Mumma. 

So if you were considering the keto diet in your future, here's my recommendations: first, check with your GP or nutritionist to make sure you're in the right capacity to take on the restrictive diet. Secondly, have something or someone to keep you going on it. Third, make sure you're comfortable with the food options you have available to you. And if you don't enjoy it, don't do it. It's not worth it if you are literally forcing yourself to do it. 

There's my experience for you. If you want to know more or want recipes that we tried, let me know! I'd love to share more.

Sending you lots of love and hoping you're staying safe,

Emily xx

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Monday, 31 August 2020

I'm Going Back To University, Virtually And Here's Why


Dress - Cotton Collection, similar here

Let's be real, 2020 has not been the year. And I'm still feeling heavy after we lost another King this weekend; Wakanda Forever. 

Pretty much everyone in the world is telling 2020 to, for lack of a better PG rated expression, f*** right off. And I couldn't agree more to be completely honest. I'm usually one person who never wants a year to end because I like what that time teaches me and also, I don't want time to run ahead of me. But this particular year can go fly a kite. 

It's natural at time like this when everything feels as uncertain as it is that you get down and you start to question what you're doing with yourself. Trust me, I was at that point quite early into lockdown. I work as a freelancer and it was so much harder to get work. I work on my blog, which I know doesn't get as much traction as others and I was trying and failing to find the right inspiration. I was wracking my brain trying to figure out, "okay, what next? What do I do with my time? How do I not make this year useless?"

These thoughts definitely did take up a lot of my time because I hated sitting around pretty much doing nothing productive. So I decided that even though COVID has put a lot on hold, there might be a few things I can take back into my own control, just in an alternative way. 

So I made the decision, a late one might I add, during the Summer to actually start my Master's Degree in September like I had originally planned to, the only difference is, I'll be doing it virtually. 

Yes, may the powers of the Internet be thanked at this point in time because if we were living in a world where we didn't have access to it or technology, we'd all be going a little bit loopier. 

I'm so excited to be returning to my alma mater back home in the UK in just a matter of weeks through the comfort of my home in the tropics. My course will be 100% conducted online for the first term, so I have no worries about actually attending classes and even if they do reopen later on down the line, there's no obligation to attend as everything will still be run online. Win-win I say. 

Obviously you may read this and think, "yeah but don't you want to actually be at uni for the experience?" It's something I definitely had to weigh up in my mind because of course that's a big part of taking a course. But what was more important to me was finally actually taking the leap into my MA as opposed to not. I realised I had an opportunity to study regardless of this global pandemic and I thought, why waste any more time? 

If there's anything I've learnt during this time of reflection is that time is fleeting and this year really has been a shit show. I didn't want to feel like that anymore and I know that there's a lot of people that feel the same. So I made a concrete decision that would give the rest of this year more structure and purpose because I didn't want it to be spent doing nothing. 

I know that's easier said than done; people have lost their jobs, can't go back to school and will have to miss out on experiences, opportunities or plans that you had for this year may be put on hold and it's not easy. Mentally this has been a hard time for us all and the reason why I wanted to write this post is to give advice where I can, to the best of my ability.

Things may not be in your control right now, you may be broken or disheartened at this uncertain time - that is okay. It is okay to not be okay. It's okay to not have it figured out because at this point, it's hard to. You need to prioritise your mental health first before you make plans for the future. So take the time to do the little things that make you happy again. It's a little bit harder when there's restrictions like lockdowns or social distancing, which will understandably build the frustration, but if you can safely see the people you love, try to do so. If you can take those leaps into what you had planned for this year, do it even if you have to rearrange the way you do it. It's important you take the steps to make yourself feel like you again. Find something to look forward to. 

I'm not saying you have to go out on the job hunt or go back to school or become an overnight millionaire - no. I'm saying do what you can in your capacity. It doesn't have to be monumental, it shouldn't be for someone else, it has to be for you and make you happy. It can be the littlest things. 

I can say that going for brunch with a friend the other day after the longest time made me so insanely happy. One thing I did two days ago and I still feel the good from it.

I finally read "Normal People" by Sally Rooney the other day and completely fell in love with it, proceeded to watch the series, fell even more in love and that just gave me an overwhelming good feeling. 

These little things can really lift your mood, I can't stress this more. Ever since I got my acceptance into university for my Master's, I have been absolutely buzzing and that has kept me positive in moments where I feel down. So if there's something in your world that can make you feel that way, if you have something you can look forward to, then make sure to keep that close to the forefront of your mind. And remind yourself that this life isn't always going to be this way. It might seem like it for now and for the near future, but know that you can adapt and make the changes you need to feel a bit better. 

So be a little selfish, find the things that make your heart soar and do them. This year doesn't have to be completely crap. 

Sending you lots of love and hoping you're staying safe,

Emily xx

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